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​​Workshops beginning the week of 24 Feb
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Human relationships (Leadership and Management)
Structure of Experience (Personal Development)
Trauma & Self-regulation (Personal Development)
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Workshops beginning the week of 10 March
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Motivation and Burnout (Leadership and Management)
Rejuvenating Creativity (Personal Development)
​Modeling Other Minds (Coaching Training)​​
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Workshops beginning the week of 23 April
Perception in Business
Workshops beginning the week of 24 February 2025
Subscribe to register by February 17
Human Relationships (Leadership and Management)
Sundays @ 2:00 - 3:30pm EST : Feb 23 – Apr 13 (8 weeks)
Session 1: Your Relationship Ecology
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Immersiveness and encompassing-ness of relationships
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Impact of relationships on mental health and productivity
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Inventory of key relationships and first steps towards modeling their impact
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Wishes and goals for improving relationships
Session 2: Relationship Rules
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What rules, expectations, or “shoulds” do you hold about relationships?
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Where do these come from and how are they working for you?
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Establishing and re-negotiating rules
Session 3: Trust, Authenticity, and Rapport
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When are and aren’t you trustworthy?
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What makes social lies compelling, and are they worth it?
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Establishing rapport and overcoming barriers to rapport
Session 4: Assessing Capability, Compatibility, and Goal-Alignment
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Trustworthiness of different social signals
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Congruence between ideals and implementations in collaborative environments
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Interpreting “sync” on tasks, goals, outcomes
Session 5: Interpersonal Conflict
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Fights as opportunities
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Personality clashes
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Mismatches in cognitive style
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Cultural blindspots and misrecognitions
Session 6: Relationship Overhang
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The force of inertia in relationships
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Evaluating relational habits or ways of being that no longer match your current goals or reality
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Transitioning out of relationships without burning bridges
Session 7: Wildly Frustrating, Unaccountable, or “Impossible” People
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What is and isn’t in our hypothesis space regarding exceptionally challenging people
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Ways social taboos can interfere with learning (and ways they still matter)
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“Gaps” in the social fabric and their impact
Session 8: Relationship Pioneering
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The need for leadership and the costs of leaderlessness
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Taking initiative to set relationships on beneficial/desirable foundations
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Blowback and benefits to being a first mover
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Structure of Experience (Personal Development)
Tuesdays @ 1:30 - 3:00pm EST : Feb 25 – Mar 18 (4 weeks)
Session 1: Introduction to Phenomenology
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Methods of observing the mind
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Value of self-inquiry
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Value of truths about the experience
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Value of shared reference experiences in human coordination
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Exercises in self-observation
Session 2: Developing an Ontology of Experience
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Exploring what types of things or objects occur in experience
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How general are our categories of experience?
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What happens when we try to extend these categories to other people’s experiences?
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Possibilities for convergence on shared experience based on experiential universals
Session 3: Navigating Experience — Zooming Out and Zooming In
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How do we hold and reflect on our whole experience?
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Zooming out and connecting to the whole as a problem-solving strategy
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Contrast with possibilities for zooming in
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Zooming in as a problem-solving strategy
Session 4: Phenomenological Frontiers
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How we experience ourselves is conditioned on how we’ve already experienced ourselves
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What does it mean to improve one’s understanding of one’s experience or experience in general?
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Possibilities for connecting to larger shared social and cultural experiences, “collective phenomenology”
Trauma and Self-Regulation (Personal Development)
Thursdays @ 6:00 - 7:30pm EST : Feb 27 – Mar 20 (4 weeks)
Session 1: A Basic Model of Trauma
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Features of the basic model
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Trauma and overwhelm
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Implications of trauma in everyday life
Session 2: Regulatory Resources
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Trauma in the nervous system: polyvagal theory
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Distinguishing states of nervous system activation
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Identifying resources for nervous system regulation
Session 3: Trauma, Safety, and Healing
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Possibilities for working with trauma
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Pendulation technique for connecting to trauma
Session 4: Trauma, Survivorship, and Social Integration
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Relationship between the nervous system and the “story” of trauma
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Social betrayal and social reintegration
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Finding an audience for the story of trauma
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Being that audience
Workshops beginning the week of 10 March 2025
Subscribe to register by March 2
Motivation and Burnout (Leadership and Management)
Wednesdays @ 6:00 - 7:30pm EST : Mar 12 – Apr 16 (6 weeks)
Session 1: Motivation in the Workplace
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Alignment of actions, outcomes, and human desires
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What actions are available
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What do the actions get
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What do the people want
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The role of creativity and strategy in maintaining morale, productivity, and progress
Session 2: Individual Character and Dispositions
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Incentives and rewards
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Where are people capably maintaining their own motivation, where are they relating on external support
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Exploring and establishing possibilities for that external motivational support
Session 3: Interpersonal Factors
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Inspiring and demoralizing relationships in the workplace
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Matches and mismatches of personality and role
Session 4: Cultural Forces
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Evaluating enculturation processes at play in the workplace
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Culture shear, culture shock, and possibilities for cultural harmony
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Establishing a cultural role of creativity
Session 5: Structural Pressures
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What broader social and cultural forces is the workplace exposed to through its work?
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How are (and aren’t) these internalized and dealt with within the work environment?
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Possibilities for rebalancing structural pressures
Session 6: Creativity and Institutional Design
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Responding to feedback about motivation and burnout
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Morale considerations and conflicts across different layers of the org chart
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Rejuvenating Creativity (Personal Development)
Saturdays @ 3:00- 4:30pm EST : Mar 15 – Apr 19 (6 weeks)
Session 1: Orienting Towards Creativity
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The idea of “having” creativity
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Possible paradoxes around intending to be more creative
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Signs and evidence that creativity is “happening”
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Possible benefits of not being creative (?!)
Session 2: Creativity as a Process
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Mutually schematizing structure of representation
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Creativity as skillfully moving between moments of mutually schematizing unfoldings
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What makes for skillfulness?
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What interrupts the process?
Session 3: Elemental Phenomenologies and Creativity
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Creating phenomenological contrasts to explore dimensions of the creative process
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e.g. Dry-sparse versus flowing-outpouring
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e.g. Contraction-closedness versus ignition-towardness
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Finding core or resonant representations of your creative process
Session 4: Creative Work Jam
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Attempting to use what we’ve explored so far, let’s actually do some creative work!
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Then debrief, reflect, diagnose, digest…
Session 5: Addressing “Blocked” Creativity
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Establishing outposts in a “creative desert”
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Finding deep wellsprings of creativity
Session 6: Healing Your Relationship With Creativity
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Accepting responsibility for creative
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Consider forgiving whatever has thwarted your creativity
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What your creativity brings to the world
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Any known or secret hopes?
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Modeling Other Minds (Coaching Development)
Thursdays @ 12:00 - 1:30pm EST : Mar 13 – Apr 19 (6 weeks)
Session 1: Inside Views and Outside Views
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Your biggest confusions about other people
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Subjectivity, objectivity, and intersubjectivity
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Options for understanding others in terms of inside views and outside views, strengths and limitations of each
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The feeling of being understood
Session 2: Relating vs Reacting to Difference
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Navigating overwhelm around differences
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Noticing associations and implicit assumptions about people “like me/us” vs “not like me/us”
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Experiences of conformity and relationship to the pressure to conform
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Holding boundaries and having own permission to be different
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Holding space for others to be different
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Session 3: Sources of Difference
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The practice of noticing difference
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Different experiences: early life, economic and cultural background
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Different developmental trajectories: major ruptures and disruptions, major adaptations
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Different goals, plans, and values
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Different choices and ethical positions
Session 4: Finding Similarity Within Difference
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Emotional, mood, and attitude inventories as sources of granularity for finding shared ground
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Possibilities for shared perspectives
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Building rapport from simple shared touchstones
Session 5: Developing Resonant Analogies
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Analogies as systems of correspondence
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Finding metaphors that give both parties meaningful forms of self-representation
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Developing a metaphor together
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Re-grounding shared metaphor in individual experience
Session 6: Humility, Hypothesis-Testing, and Backtracking
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Permission to be non-catastrophically wrong about the other
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Navigating feelings of (perhaps mutual) misunderstanding
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Re-grounding in kindness and care towards the other
Workshops beginning the week of 23 April 2025
Subscribe to register by April 23
Perception in Business
Wednesdays @ 5:00 - 6:30pm CET / 11am ET / 8am PT : Apr 23 – May 28 (6 weeks)
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Description
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The head game of “being in business” as any kind of life coach is fundamental to creating and sustaining your own practice. Figuring out how to present yourself in a way that is true to you, do good work with clients, and attract and retain clients to stay viable, all touch on critical questions of perception that influence nearly every corner of your practice.
Based on our experience training a cohort of potential life coaches, we have come to believe that this course is essential for potential and current coaches.
Instructor: Tee Barnett
Session 1: Taking stock & surfacing cruxes​
Session 2: Cruxes as gifts, experiments, impairments & lifelong questions​
Session 3: Concealing & revealing: Roles, masks & identity​
Session 4: Creating plans for integration & implementation​
Session 5: Notable methods on self-presentation & business​
Session 6: Feedback & iteration​
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